UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE [part 2]

UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE [part 2]

CONDITIONS NECESSARY  FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARITAL LIFE.

         Several questions follows the preface of UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE,particularly why many marriage usually brake within a very short period of time. Here are the conditions that necessary for successful Maria life:

      To begin it, NATURAL LOVE,love carry 79% of total part of marriage and any marriage that lack love such marital life have a very short  life span. Husband is expected to love the wife and the wife is expected to love the husband respectively. Intending couples are to seek at all cost presence of love in their marital affairs so as to stabilize their relationship. Many marriage fail today as a result of absence of NATURAL LOVE.

         Secondly,CARING one of the major condition that is necessary for a sustainable marriage is caring, husband is expected to care for the wife and the wife is equally expected to care for the husband. In the process of love caring emerge whereby many people who are in a true love find things difficult to do if they have not been able to hear from their wife or husband this is because  love is there and effect positive changes to caring. Ladies by their nature they appreciate men who entertains caring at all times and prefer to spend their rest of years with the man who cares about them. Caring begins with have you  pray? How is your health? Have you eaten?what will you like to  wear today? Etc.

            Thirdly,Tolerance,couples who dreamt to live together for a very long time is expected to tolerate each other, husband  wife must understand that by the nature of Human being no man is completely alike as explained by CHARLES DARWIN IN THE THEORY OF EVOLUTION. Lovers must belief that we are bringing different person from different backgrounds and born from different parent together therefore, couples should learn how to tolerate each other’s doings and behaviours at all time in order to progress their marital affairs.

         More also, Faithfulness and Truthfulness also serve as a bedrock to a successful marital life. Any husband who can not at all times stand firm to trust his wife normally find love as barrier to  a successful living. As a matter of fact faithfulness and truthfulness is an essential attributes of a successful living being removing it  in any social interaction it becomes dissociative interaction.

            Conclusively, husband and wife must understand themselves. Understanding themselves prevented collapse of marriage because at a point in time when problems arise wife knows where and when to speak and seek for apology like the husband must have every fundamental information about the wife in order to prevent future and immediate problems. Globally marriage is an essential contract people enter till their rest of life until in a Case of untimely demise of any of the couple. Therefore before going into life contractual agreement couple must be able to  state clearly the STRENGTH AND WEAKNESSES  of their life partner.

              Watch out for 5 five major problems hindered fruitfulness and efficiency of a Successful Marital life.

      Written by:

         Yusuf .W.