UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE [part 3]

UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE [part 3]

5 FIVE MAJORS PROBLEMS  HINDERED FRUITFULNESS AND EFFICIENCY OF A SUCCESSFUL MARITAL LIFE.

             Many marital life all over the world supposed to might have enjoyed and experienced essence of marriage formation but many factors slow down the effectiveness, efficiency and efficacy of a successful marital life some factors  are minors while many of them are major factors. Here are some of the majors factors:-

               To begin with,Financial Constraint, many marital life faced with the problem of financial crisis most especially family with low or no stable source of income,feeding clothing  and other basic necessities of life becomes problem with this fact such family is in calamities and predicament and if it's not properly handle such marital life may collapse. Occasionally husband with financial incapacity may and may not be able to handle the family issues efficiently,money is not everything but in marital affairs money speaks in fact without money family life itself becomes a problem. A situation where husband cannot meet up with his responsibility as the head of the family and as the Bread Winner such a marital life has just only 2years before the  problem would b arises and this may again go against the will of the husband.

              Secondly,Incompatibility over 68% of the people who get married faced with this problem of incompatibility. People get married and happily blessed with children but the compatibility is not there any marriage with this identified problem has a tendency of living for a very short period of years before the negative signs of incompatibility will start. Many marriage with this problem can not do away with misunderstanding,fighting,unnecessary argument and exchange of blow and turning the wife to bunching bag and vice versa and this is usually everyday.

                Thirdly, Peer Pressure many people lucky they married their destinined wife and husband and in time of compatibility they are compatible and when talk of financial buoyancy the money is there but the marriage faced with the problem of peer group pressure. Type and kind of friend wife and husband keep usually explain their character towards their husband and wife and wife who get along with friends who are not well groomed and culture may influence and cause attitudinal changes of the wife toward the husband and like wise husband that get along with bad friends may equally affect his behavior toward the wife and the children.

                 Fourthly, barrenness or inability of the wife to conceived. Many scholar has argued that most often than not not only the wife that is usually behind the problem of inability to bear children at times husband used to be the major problem but African mentality is wife is the only barrier to the problem of barrenness. Everybody has a very strong notion that marriage without children is like a "Ordinary Paper Tiger" with this essential tag marriage without children such marital life is in danger.

          More also , Lack of trust, any marital affairs without trust such marriage can not last long because trust is an important aspect of a successful marital life.

                    Finally,Parental Involvement in the domestic affairs of the marital life. parental involvement in the marital affairs has limitation in a situation where parents seek to know interior aspect of marital affairs marriage will seem to experience calamities which may hasten the escalation of marriage within a very short period of time.

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                          Written by :

                            Yusuf .W.